I served an online Domme at one time. We went to a web site together, and she selected both a (lifelike) dildo, and a penis shaped buttplug for me to order. Which I did.
The size of the dildo wasn't supposed to be that big, just average size. When it arrived to my horror, and my Domme's amusement, it seemed that whoever measured the thing was illiterate and didn't know how to measure. It was huge.
Under the instruction of the Domme, she tasked me to begin using it. I was like "You want me to do what with that?" After awhile, I found I rather enjoyed it. I wasn't allowed to masturbate while it was inserted.
The very simple things she instructed me to do, turned out to be the key in me enjoying it.
1. Clean yourself. A cleansing enema, followed by a couple of rinse cycles.
2. Lube. Use a water based lube. Use a lot of it, use copious amounts of it.
3. Start with the buttplug first, Lube it and DON'T force it. Relax, soon it will find itself inside you. Keep it in awhile. Sit down, walk around, etc. She had me walk to a grocery store 4 blocks away and do my grocery shopping with it inside of me.
4. After removing the buttplug, lube the dildo up with lots of lube just like you did with the buttplug. DON'T Force it!!! By then, you should be used to having something inside of you, and it should slide in. DON'T force it all the way, let it naturally go in as far as it wants to go, DON'T force it to go any further.
5. Sanitation - keep it clean. Make sure you clean it very well after each use. Very important.
The dildo the Domme had me order has a suction cup base. I recommend it. She had me stick it to the wall and get on my hands and knees and back into it. As well as stick it to the floor and sit on it. She also had me lay on my side and pump it in and out with my hand. I would do this a twice a week as she instructed.
To my astonishment, I found I rather enjoy it. Its not unpleasurable to me.
And I'd love to experience the sensation of a Shemale Domme cock inside of me.
Incidently, the Domme had me order a black lifelike dildo, with head, veins, and balls. Think she had something in mind for me?
