A sense that I get from a lot of you here is a lack of open and completely honest communication with your spouse's. I know that can be a difficult task, and I happen to be lucky enough to be involved with a very liberal and accepting partner. Nonetheless, and perhaps I'm naive in this, I feel you should perhaps give your life partners a little more credit than what you are. Obviously talking about something as seemingly homoerotic as being fucked with a strap-on or taking a lesson in cock sucking is a delicate matter. I won't grace you with just how THAT conversation should go, as it's largely a matter of each individual relationship. I just know that as a species, we are an amazingly adaptable bunch in the sexual realm. If you are involved with someone in a long term context, they are probably interested in fulfilling your sexual fantasies, and hopefully you feel mutual??? Honestly, (and again I might be naive), I would think the attraction to a she-male might be a sort of middle ground fantasy that would be easier to explore than say, oh, being gay in the normal sense of the word. A woman could at least accomodate you on many points of your fantasy and by wearing a strap-on could take you to previously unforeseen dimensions.
Regarding the female poster in here, I would not have you delude yourself, but I truly do admire your willingness to accept and explore your boyfriend's sexuality. Again, I'm not a psychologist, but perhaps he should be at this forum too? I don't know, I don't want to give you what might amount to bad advice, but I do feel that the two of you should have a more mutual understanding of your sexual relationship before proceeding and getting too emotionally invested in one another. Have you tried a strap-on, that might be a means of meeting your boyfriend somewhere in the middle ground. Also, and this is just my own personal experience, try some BDSM, something about "forcing" a man (or woman) to do certain things can be a powerful mind-f*ck in my estimation. Lastly, has a threesome crossed your mind? This too would be a means of exploring yourselves, but again I speak from my personal experience, a threesome can be a bit weird. My wife and I fucked one of my best friends growing up, this real cutey of a boy. My wife played domme the whole time while my lipstick-painted lips danced on his cock and teased his nipples. It was fun...But the next morning, it was sort of like...Ummm, okay....About last night....Yeah...Weird....REALLY turned on...But weird.... (I guess that's what a whole night of liquor, cocaine, and TG pornography gets you!) At any rate, feel free to PM me if you have any more questions, I will do my best to share my perspective on the rather unconventional relationship that I have.
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