My own feelings are this: I won't put out on a first date, or necessarily subsequent dates. Growing up I suppose you could say that I was awkward within the dating scene. I ALWAYS felt as you do, that a more meaningful relationship was a prerequisite towards more sexual involvement. Otherwise, we might as well just be fucking whores, right??? And as a tgirl, I can say in concurrment with Bionca, that YES, I feel like a lot of trans folk would certainly enjoy being appreciated for their company, personality, etc. before going to bed.
So while you may be old-fashioned within the context of contemporary society, don't feel all alone..
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