Not getting “hard” happens to every guy at one time or another (except in porn movies…
) I wouldn’t worry about it. I think virtualflowe gave you some good advice. Spend a lot of time on “foreplay,” relax, and have fun!
You could also let her get on top but if you’re not real hard she will have to be very careful and not get too “wild.” Or as girish suggested, let her fuck you.
