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Originally Posted by Bionca
Yay Hank!! 
I can't stress your last point about taking time to get used to it enough. The natural reaction is to clench up and push out. It is very important to remember this for the first time tops and bottoms. Do the initial penetration in slow easy stages. Tip first and wait, then ease in slowly and wait ...
It should also be noted that a little preparation goes a long long way. Fingers, tongue and toys are very useful and should be used liberally. Lube is also a must as well as condoms - seriously, it's not hot or sexy but lots of you guys are seeing escorts so play smart and safe. |
Thanks Bionca :-) I used to say that I may be open-minded but in a tight-assed way... ;-)
Seriously, as you I just have a tight rectum, and it takes LOTS of time to get used to being anally fucked. In the beginning it was no fun at all, and I kept wondering why I really wanted to do this. But I persisted and with a little help from my good transsexual friends I've finally got to a point where the physical pleasure (not just the emotional pleasure) is now part of it.
And whether we're transsexual women or guys we share the same pain :-) And pleasure, for that matter.
I'll never forget the first time my sweet Mel wanted to fuck me... Mel has a sizable cock and I remembering thinking "OMG this is never gonna work HELP HELP HELP!" But it DID work! Because Mel took it easy! And shared a few good hints ;-)
Using condoms is obviously a must - but make sure to add extra amounts of lube as a condom enlarges friction and minimizes the natural flexibility of the cock in your ass.
So do lube up, guys and girls!
Peace!
H