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Originally Posted by JodieTs

Are you over 18?
If so, why do you care what others think regarding who you shag / date / marry.
I'd suggest you get some better friends,
though in truth, that's not necessary. They are your friends
and they like you for who you are. They'll likely be fine about who you date.

My parents took 5 years!.... FIVE YEARS!!! to tell my very elderly (late 80's)
godparents about my transition. {They specifically requested me to not to tell me godparents, directly}
I pointed out that other than both godparents dying in a car crash, together,
one of them WOULD LEARN of my transition at the other godparents funeral
or if I die first, at my funeral. Not a good time to learn.
After parents told them, my godparents were very chilled and have been more communicative and closer to me, than for many years.

Don't pre-guess other peoples reaction to you being a Trans attracted man.
It shows you to be an individual who lives outside the box.
That's a good thing.

This is a great reply Jodie! You are right.