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Originally Posted by SweetCharmer
i'm really ashamed to think that there are men out there like that. For me
Bionca most of my friends see me as an idiot at time just because i'm and old fashion person when it comes to relationships, now a days i hear from my friends "oh i met this really fit girl and she was good in bed and gice me the best BJ" and all that. to me sleeping with the person you like on the first night isn't good no offence to anyone. i just do it the old way courting and whatnot y'know getting to know them first and then thinking about sex at another time and here's the punchline. all the girls i've dated have been the type to want sex on the first night so when i wanna know them better i'm usually dumped in the first couple of weeks or at most 3 months so yeah i know what you mean by insensitive people  |
While I have been known to show the goods on a first date, there is nothing like the build up that happens by courting eachother. It probably sn't that the girs wanted sex on the first night, but rather they expected it. They probably read your desire to wait fro sex as rejection. Even if you tolf them up front that you want to wait.. most women won't believe it because most guys will lie about sex to get more. So women who have their self-image partly wrapped up in how they look (most are guilty) will be a little hurt by the "rejection" of sex.