There are a couple things with analingus (ass licking) for genetic women. First, it feels good - loads of yummy nerves clustered around the sphincter. It is an unusual feeling at first, but once the initial shock wears off it can be pretty fun.
As foreplay for anal sex it and a little fingering are essential. Any lover who would even consider poking the booty without getting it ready first is a pretty selfish lover - this could include toys too.. but I find body parts easier to manage.
Second, during sex people to to us what they want done to themselves often. If you want attention to your nipples, it's common to reflexively play with your partner's nipples for example. One of the keys to being a good lover is understanding this and paying attention to how your partner responds to what you do. So, it could be that your BF playing with your bottom is giving you the signal that he'd like some booty-play. Or, he trying to gague your willingness for some anal sex.
It you can get into it, sit back and enjoy.. if you aren't, let him know.
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