But bear in mind that there are almost as many ways as there are transsexuals. It's a 100% personal thing and relates totally to how you identify as a gender. There's no right or wrong. ( hankhavelock)
The above quote made me wonder and think about the many catergories we could put ourselves in. What we should label ourselves in refferance to our composition.
I was thinking that if we start with the basic identities; sm for straight male, bi male, CD,( cross dresser) TV (transvestite) TS (transsexual) TG ( transgender), GG. Where would you place yourself?
I've met many CDs but they range from the "closet" type, never going out in public and perhaps even at that they only wear a few items as compared to doing a full make-over. Then there are CDs that go out in public sometimes. While wqe should say that CDs are "pert-time" female what about TVs that live as fem's full time? There are CDs that have gone as far as having implants. Does that make them TVs ? It would seem so. Where does it change to TS? perhaps a person in transition before implants and SRS?
There are abnomaladies where a straight guy may have female breasts. How does that compare with a pre-op' TS f2m ?
Where one fits in seems to depemd on what you are, what you want to be and what you would want to hook-up with.
I've met some CDs that are totally creepy jerks. Others totally nice. GGs are to complicated and high strung for me. But my wiring is like a self distructive computer. 
It's a complicated world of complicated people. maybe we all have a little bit of everything in our DNA.
I do the best I can with what I've got.
Fran