[thegirlinblue]

Hmmm, interesting thoughts.

I have to say that from my perspective I love both, and I enjoy having sex with women just as much as men. I don't think one has to be the "Catcher" as you put it or the "Giver" why can't we be both. I mean maybe not every time but maybe sometimes dominant and some time submissve.

I love rough and sometimes it is nice to just lay back and take it if you know what I mean. But then other times it's all about me and I just want to fuck somebodies brains out. So to answer your question from my point of view it's not about a man being a man, what ever that means. Trans* folk are pretty much like anyone else we have desires and want to be loved but that doesn't mean we all want it the same way nor does that mean that we all want it at all. You have to remember that there are many people that just aren't interested in sex at all.