Larry, I know that I sort of alluded to being asexual. I don't particularly WANT anything from my partner in terms of intimacy/sex. For me, intimacy goes beyond sex, and in my partnership, about a hundred different things rank higher (for me) than sex, such as:
-Friendship
-Financial stability
-The ability to save money and contribute towards retirement
-Parenting (currently have a son, who is the joy of my life)
-Etc.
With that being said, if you are only interested in sexual intimacy I might be able to give some insight. I don't mind being fucked, so long as my penis isn't involved. I tend to think of my anatomy as similar to a woman. Getting fucked...My ass is like my pussy. For me, my penis is like a clit. Do you stroke a clit? Not really. I don't mind a bit of stroking or sucking, but I don't want to be INSERTING it anywhere, as women don't exactly insert their clits to fuck people.
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