I fell in love with a Ts and she left me because I hid from people that she was a Ts. She felt she had to hide her true self when around my friends/fam, and felt too much pressure to "hide" the fact she was a Ts.
Ultimately my love for her was too much and I told all my family who she was and we are back together and enjoy a very happy life together. She didn't want the world to know, just the families.
None of my friends know she is a Ts, and she is happy to leave it with just family.
The laws in Aus are changing, essentially as a pre op Ts she has "female" sex in every government department, including birth certificate.
I have met other Ts and they are all different in what they expect from a partner. Some want the world to know they are Ts, so u have to accept that she will flaunt it to everyone, some hide it from even close family of the partner. Some Ts don't look completely passable, so u have to deal with that as well.
I remember walking down the street with my gf and being a little shy that people would spot me. She was my first experience and I had a lot to learn about being with a Ts.
Where I work I often see Ts and from the comments from my work mates I can tell you I would never tell them I have a Ts partner.
People still get stoned to death for being gay, loose political positions in western countries for being gay, and trust me, being Ts is even more taboo than just being a "gay person". Views have changed for me in even just a few short years, but it is still a massive taboo.
I can convince myself all I want, and every Ts I have been with has told me they are attracted to me because i am a "straight guy", but common... How can I truly believe that when I am gagging on dick? Lol for me, I wouldn't have it any other way, but yeah, I do consider it at least a little gay being attracted to a cock, albeit on the body of a woman.
I know a lot of celebs in Aus that have sex with Ts on the side, prob in the same way that many people of my parents generation had gay sex while being married on straight relationships. People didn't really talk about, people didn't really care, and ultimately, it's your life.
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