oh and top of all that..she still has to deal with her own tg issues as well.
Spending way more time shopping than a gg would. (Because nothing fits!) Spending more money than a gg would..seamstress, hormones, counselor, doctor, voice training, ffs etc. Trying to find a job. Trying to find a job with insurance that'll cover you. Keeping your job. Being hassled by cops because your sex on id doesn't match how you present. Coming out issues. Losing friends. Losing family. and on and on and on. Self doubt. Questioning whether dealing with all that, is really worth it.
So yeah, your tgirl already has alot on her mind BEFORE you even approach her. Tending to jackasses is NOT the highlight of her day.
I'm actually starting to get a little steamed here. You can keep your "gratuitous advice". I have enough on my plate, thank you!
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