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Originally Posted by triplej

I agree. My understanding of femboy/femboi(s) is that they were basically twinks that crossdressed and know how to get all feminine and super cute. I think the femboi thing is more of a gay sub-subculture than the transexual. For all intents and purposes a femboi is very much a BOY, just one that likes to play female/feminine. I could be wrong on this one but, it seems to me that's the understanding of it. I've also seen fembois and traps often listed together because if the femboi is "good enough" at being "fem" they can "trap" an otherwise unsuspecting "straight" guy. Not that all fembois are even trying that hard to "trap" anyone. It's more of a crossdressing thing than a transexual/transitioning.

For me if the person is "fem" enough I don't really care if they are transitioning or not. I'm attracted to the feminine look/role with the added bonus of also having a penis to play with. Although, I do identify as bi for this very reason. I'm not picky, I don't only admire transexual women, but also anyone feminine enough with the right plumbing, hence fembois, twinks, sissies, traps, etc. If a person identifies as a "guy" but looks fem and cute and "girly" enough it doesn't bother me.

In my many, many posts in this thread, I have treated it as a thread for traps who identify as female. Personally, I would prefer a different thread title to address the confusion that your post articulates.