How Kinky Is Kinky ...
It seems to me that that those who were raised Catholic or Baptist seem to have the greatest difficulty dealing with aspects of sexual behavior and exploration. Of course that is not a generality but just a thought to start this thread. My thoughts are that being kinky is really pretty normal. As long as it does not harm anyone else and as long as we know that it may not be well received in (some of) the boardrooms of America. Provocative dress and endlessly provocative advertising only serve to add to the endless possibilities for kinky sexual adventuring. It is our brain that enjoys the trip. Our unique brain is plugged into us doing kink. But, we are not alone. Have you ever watch a couple of frogs fucking in the pond in the spring?!!?? Don't tell me their brain is not plugged into the event !! Breeding is something we do. We breed to survive and society tells us how we should do it ... Well, at least our current society does anyway. I suspect that on a more technologically primitive note that our very ancient ancestors really didn't much consider the idea of kinky sex. To them it was something they needed to do. We - both men and women - need to get our rock off so to speak. Getting it done and how you do it .... well, that's the education part of it. Smart people often need smart or kinky sex. Regular boring sex is just not enough. So, if you find yourself being bored one way or the other it's likely that you are just another smart, bored human who needs some stimulation to get through the day. Thus, the tendency to get into kinky sex deeper and deeper and more and more ... so called kinky ways. We are just experimenting ... pushing our limits. Enjoying the trip. Nothing wrong with that ... Not a thing. Just don't hurt anybody and don't hurt yourself. Be careful who you do what with and always PLAY safe. That way you will be able to enjoy your kink(s) for a long time and keep on finding new ones. Regards ....
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