The first thing a hypicritcal "I'm above all that" response would be to attack you for that statement. I see no malice in your question only some , if I may, some childlike soul searching. Many others would welcome such a question since non-confrontational discussions usually help all of us to see another viewpoint. Personally, I also do not prefer very very dark skinned TG's but am attracted to the same skin tone with GG's. Perhaps it's simply a matter of 'features'. I would not expect anyone to be called racist because they prefer peach ice cream over vanilla. Unless of course you threaten to burn down the ice cream parlor. Let's look at this in a more positive light, my son,even though he never tried it, 'hated' cauliflower for years. Over constant exposure to it one day he did try it, now he has it all the time. Maybe you, or I will be in the same position. 'The only bad question is the question not asked'.
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Originally Posted by GRH
So as I peruse the various freebie threads, I've come to a realization. I'm just not really into black people. I was raised in a family that had some racist ideology at times, so I can't help but wonder if this is baggage from my upbringing. I really don't have a problem with people of other races, and I try not to judge a book by its cover.
However, when it comes to sexual attraction-- black skin is just not a turn-on. White...Not a problem. Asian...Not a problem. Latino...Not a problem. But dark-skinned people of African descent just don't turn me on, and I don't really know why. The only African-Americans that I have ever felt were sexually attractive were very light-skinned individuals (think someone like Mariah Carey, etc.).
I just don't get this. I can see a picture of what by all objective measures should be a sexually attractive individual who is black, and there is just zero sexual attraction. I guess the problem is that sexual attraction isn't always objective.
Does anyone else have a sexual disconnect with certain races? If so...Do you care to ponder the reason why?
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