You want an answer to what is normal. The only thing normal I guess is you asked the question; just like all the others that asked before you.
I don't know where you live but if you live in the USA you might understand this joke.
" If you think you or your family is weird, just watch the people that shop at WalMart. Your family is okay. ( and so are you )"
Think about this. If a T girl wants to be rid of her cock, ( that's part of transition) why would she take pleasure from it?
If you can please a T-girl without being sexual, watch out! She may be all over you.

