Race & Sexual Attraction
So as I peruse the various freebie threads, I've come to a realization. I'm just not really into black people. I was raised in a family that had some racist ideology at times, so I can't help but wonder if this is baggage from my upbringing. I really don't have a problem with people of other races, and I try not to judge a book by its cover.
However, when it comes to sexual attraction-- black skin is just not a turn-on. White...Not a problem. Asian...Not a problem. Latino...Not a problem. But dark-skinned people of African descent just don't turn me on, and I don't really know why. The only African-Americans that I have ever felt were sexually attractive were very light-skinned individuals (think someone like Mariah Carey, etc.).
I just don't get this. I can see a picture of what by all objective measures should be a sexually attractive individual who is black, and there is just zero sexual attraction. I guess the problem is that sexual attraction isn't always objective.
Does anyone else have a sexual disconnect with certain races? If so...Do you care to ponder the reason why?
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