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Originally Posted by Melissa Pink

If anyone just "sticks it in my ass" it will be the last time they ever buttfuck me. I normally insist on riding my parter first when we have anal. That way I can control how much of their cock enters me and how quickly. After five or ten minutes my sphincter relaxes and we can get more creative. You might consider investing in an "anal trainer" set of dildoes like these marketed by Wendy Williams. The will help stretch your ass to accomodate nearly any size cock. In my opinion, the key to pleasurable great anal sex is preparation.

I totally agree, I hate it when a guy just shoves it in without opening me up first. They probably get the idea that they can just stick it in from watching too much porn.