[Melissa Pink]

Originally Posted by newt72

like everyone else says it is about enough lube and time i took my ex wifes anal cherry, and she loved anal sex cause i took my time and did it right, i love a cock in my ass as well she would fuck me with a strap-on and we did it the same way slow and right it was great, but the same time i have had guys just stick it in my as is too tight for that i need some loving back there before they shove in 8-9 inches

If anyone just "sticks it in my ass" it will be the last time they ever buttfuck me. I normally insist on riding my parter first when we have anal. That way I can control how much of their cock enters me and how quickly. After five or ten minutes my sphincter relaxes and we can get more creative. You might consider investing in an "anal trainer" set of dildoes like these marketed by Wendy Williams. The will help stretch your ass to accomodate nearly any size cock. In my opinion, the key to pleasurable great anal sex is preparation.