Don't get me wrong, Edward. I know how square i am. And i'm a bit of an old guy -as we all experience, old habits die hard. I guess i wish i was more versatile, hearing so much praises of prostate pleasure; and also "anal" in itself, by the way: it seems many people enjoy these feelings of plentifulness (of being filled) and surrendering (because it takes a lot of abandon to bottom, that's one thing i love and admire so much). But i have tried worst comes worst to become the best "active" partner i can be, as delicate and skilful as possible in giving such pleasure. I don't want to sound too immodest, but i think i'm at least pretty much there, i think i'm not such a bad "top" lover. So i would add to what i've answered smc that i'm certainly not knocking it off: i love people who loves it !!