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Originally Posted by smc
I appreciate your effort to answer the question, but I think your explanation is misfocused. Perhaps the distinction for the person looking at pictures of various people is as you write, but from the perspective of the CD or femboy I believe it to be quite different. That is where the focus of a definition should lie.
A crossdresser does not self-identify as female, but as a male in female clothing. Otherwise, the CD is a transsexual.
In my experience, the "femboys" (or "traps" -- a term I use a lot in my posts in this thread and that I have defined previously) either identify as female or are getting very close to (struggling with) admitting that they have gender dysphoria.
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My own self-identification can vary wildly within a single week and it's possible that the way I am thinking or feeling is directly linked to my estrogen levels at the time. I've been a sissy for almost my entire life, since I was at least 5.
I love to dress and do enjoy the feeling that stems from wearing clothing that would be considered more feminine by most standards. I've got a soft, slender body, but my face is undeniably masculine. I have other feminine traits, too.
I sometimes identify as a man and sometimes identify as a woman. I love strong, masculine women, whether I am identifying as male or female and the more dominant they are, the better. So, I am a submissive both ways.
I LOVE shemales, but also enjoy the occasional company of part-time CDs. Even though the majority of society might consider that m2m gay, I do not, but I am not afraid of the label. When I'm dressing or identifying as a woman, I DO consider relations with a shemale or a genetic woman to be gay encounter, and again I have no problem. I also have no problem admitting that I love cock.
I guess I am just greedy.
