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Tough question. With all due respect and I'm sure with love you would be compelled to stay, but the change in gender also can and most likely will cause a loss in attraction.

I can admire those that stay, but also respect a decision to end the relationship. This doesn't mean that you have to become enemies, but you can never ask your partner to change their sexual desires completely. That's like asking a square to be a circle, or a pie to be a pot roast. Straight men that are attracted to transgendered women view TG women as women. Those same men are of course not attracted to other men.

On a transgender board such as this, I feel it's best to disclose all transitional aspirations with your partner so that everyone understands how each other feels, and where they see themselves in the future.