ahah great question.
after i was with my ts gf for a while i saw pics of her from when she was a boy, and when she started transitioning.
i told her a while back, and to be honest to me its makes a difference what she looks like.
when i saw pics of her with short hair and boy clothes i was not attracted to her.. shallow or whatever u call it, but to me, yes i am attracted to a person who looks like a girl. before she transitioned she just looked a typical gay asian male... which is not what i am into.
if i met her as a boy.. same personality and all... i would not want to date her.
but same personality.. as a girl.. i am in love..
now you ques is.. what would i do if after a number of years she changed back (which does happes to some ts!)... well to be honest i do not know.
i would not stop being with her because people would start seeing us a gay relationship, and hence me gay.. but i would look at her and think.. am i still sexually attracted to this person?
all i told her was whatever path she decided to go down was her own choosing, and not to be influenced by me or anyone else.
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