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Originally Posted by franalexes
When is guy a gurl?
If a guy wears his girlfriends panties, is he a CD, cross dresser?
If a guy wears girl clothes, is he a CD?
If a guy wears girl clothes for the sexual fun of it, even if he stays in the closet, is he a CD? I'd say yes.
If a guy wears girl clothes and does so in public, is he a CD? Yes, most deffinately.
If a CD wears girl clothes all the time and lives like a girl is he then a TV? ( transvestite) I'd have to say that he is.
If a TV lives as a girl, looks like a girl, ( and some are very pretty) and decides to have breast implants, does that make him a TS?
( Can a pre-op' TS be flat chested and still be a girl?)
( TV with breasts vs: a TS flat chested; is there a difference?)
Now if a guy, dresses as a girl, full time, lives like a girl full time, has breast implants, and now even has learned to think like a girl; is he then a TS ?
Now understand that we TS girls know that we were born already wired as girls.
Is there anyone on this forum that even dares to argue that a TS is not a girl? I think not. Now I myself have no problem spelling that g-u-r-l. just to establish that things were not the same from the beginning.
So now we have another question. At what point is a guy a girl?
Or is there even a single point? There are many CD's that have a much better disposition and emotional wiring than a lot of self proclaimed "hot-stuff" girls.
I've talked myself into a full circle on this. Yet it defies all sound reasoning.
Do we put labels on people or do we let people asign their own label?
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Very interesting questions Fran. I am no "gurl", I'm a girl, and always have been. I mean I had to learn to pretend to be a guy, having been so bullied for either being to girly or gay through out school. It wasn't till HS that most of that stopped, though not completely. Because my femininity kept showing through on some levels.
I've also always hated my give first and middle names, and also hated the effects testosterone had on my body. So there for I am definitely a transsexual woman.
Now I do know of one cd who did transition from living as a man to living as a woman, but with out the aid of hormones. Do I still consider her a girl? Yes, yes I do. But only because that's how she chooses to identify.
I also don't consider anybody how only dresses part time to be anything other than the gender they were born as. Because they still must like being their born gender or they'd transition.
These are just my thoughts on the matter, and hope they do not offend anyone.
