While i do feel sorry for her and i understand very well what having an F listed as you sex, the thing is unless you have had SRS then you pretty much are stuck being listed under your birth gender as long as she retains her penis she'll be listed as male
right after i was granted a legal name change i went to the DMV to get a new drivers lic i only expected to only see a new photo as i was living full time and looked nothing like the photo and have Jennifer on it so i showed the clerk the paperwork granting the name change had my photo taken and to my surpise i saw the clerk listed my sex as female
At time we get lucky and find a decent clerk who types an F but you can't count on it and are not required by law to do so unless you had SRS
i REMEMBER THE TALKS AFTER 911 that homeland security wanted to list current gender and BS gender [birth sex] in order to keep us all safe
Jerseygirl Jen