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Originally Posted by smc
I suggest you read through this thread. There are two main positions adopted: one is from all the guys who worry that they're gay (guys who I think are wasting their time and valuable brain cells on such a thing), and the other from those of us who don't give a shit about labels.
Oddly enough, the label you give yourself seems to matter enough that you would leave if there aren't others who similarly label themselves. That seems, to be perfectly frank, rather ridiculous. Just be yourself and enjoy the site.
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No, I understand (in fact I tried editing my post after I posted that to remove that "Perhaps I should leave" bit because I knew it was wrong to actually suggest something based on something so silly as labels), and that's something I've been trying to work on is just trying to forget myself and my own labels, it's just that me accepting myself as such was such a powerful, shaping event in my life. Really, my disappointment comes mostly from how I find myself all but alone as a gay guy who appreciates femboys, you'd... well, I suppose
you wouldn't be surprised by it, but there really are so few gay guys into shemales and crossdressers. Really, it's true that crossdressers are my bread and butter when it comes to sexual fantasies, and not necessarily shemales first and foremost, but I really appreciate femininity and I love femininity... I just don't care for ciswomen or post-op transsexuals in that way.
I simply wish I saw others thinking the same, yet also being able to appreciate things like soft-featured boys and submissive, cute, non-masculine males in general. Certainly I can't demand that others do, and I get that most on here aren't gay.
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Originally Posted by Enoch Root
Especially? There are other possibilities?! Whole new sexual arenas?
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I simply mean soft, feminine guys as opposed to, for example, bears, or even more masculine men in general.