@smc
If anything I asked or stated has holes in it or creates even the slightest form of controversy, it's only because of my poor knowledge probably about anything/everything regarding TS women. Yet, I can't stress enough that I feel it's quite natural being either homosexual, straight, TS, lesbian or whichever, furthermore I find statements like "TS women aren't women" to be absurd at the very least. I'm sorry I came off like that.
As for the "looks and feels like a woman", I'll try to clarify. Ie. you're TS and I'm straight, in my mind one is normal just as much as the other but you'll agree there's a difference between the two, which means that our different experiences also created different points of view that you and I have about various things in relationships. So when I said that I might fall for a TS woman that "looks and feels like a woman", it's because I only had hetero relationships while I never even met a TS woman, thus from my point of view it's not wrong to feel a relationship with a TS woman would be different for me. To imply TS women are not women never crossed my mind, and I didn't hold back when I asked if TS women can be similarly tender/romantic in relationships as I thought that whoever might reply will take into account that my only experience are hetero relationships. Anyways I'm sorry for contributing to any misunderstanding, hopefully this clears the air a bit