Obviously not everyone feels the same way. I joined this forum to learn more about myself after I first discovered my interest in transwomen was more than simply curiosity. As I suspected, it was the individual that I was attracted to. Since then my understanding of many of the issues involved has increased as has my desire for a trans partner. However, my desire for ciswomen has not decreased. So my basic criteria are the same as before: a “connection” of some kind when we meet, shared interests, intelligence, personality, beautiful eyes, great body, long legs, nice ass… Nowhere on that list is there any mention of sex organs. Similarly the list does not preclude meeting a gay man with those same characteristics.