This is not totally directed at you, but it has something to do with what you said.
It is interesting to note what is construed as feminine these last few centuries. In olden days femininity was seen through a voluptuous body of lush curves, the likes of which you could crash your lustful thoughts faster than an F1 driver.
If you look closely at the art work of famous artists, for example Leonardo da Vincis "La Gioconda" (more commonly known as Mona Lisa), is a perfect example of this, among many others.
A women in those days, had to be well fed, in order to properly breast feed her children. And a woman with a pale skin and some fat was regarded as both healthy, and wealthy. A woman had to be healthy to have strength to tend to the pasture, and help at home with manual labour.
With the advent of magazines and modelling careers, and now tv and internet, and with some push from the designer front, women would see themselves getting thinner and thinner, literally withered into anorexia to fit into those newly designed costumes. Worse even is that they just seem to get smaller and smaller each century. Why I wonder if in the future women will just cease to wear any clothes whatsoever.
We the men are also to blame, it was we who first came up with stiletto heels (Andre Perugia or Roger Vivier some of the first), most designers of the last few centuries were all male, so who knows how they influenced those women. For the rest I blame the media, for the continuous bombardment of advertising on what they want us to be like, as opposed to being how our genes allow us to be.
In soma, what you get today as feminine is this creation of man, in his attempt to achieve his fantasy of what a woman should be, regardless if it is really feminine or not. A world full of liposuctions, rhinoplasties, mammoplasties, etc. that's a lot of "plastic" to go around. Now sometimes surgery is absolutely necessary, and I agree with that, but there are people that overdo it. Have we become so superficial?
Asian t-girl (generalised version of t-girl) are a testament of what femininity looks like nowadays really thin and small petite women with almost no curves, in what amounts to almost a paedophiles paradise. That's not to say they aren't pretty, and I have found quite a few, but the majority of cases they look even younger than 18. The same happens to the g-girl front, many prefer the lolita type nowadays, with teacher student scenario and girls dressed up with school uniforms popping up a lot. For example you could compare
Little Lupe to an Asian t-girl (generalised) and you might see a lot of similarities. The only thing that really remained on Asian t-girls that women had in the past, is that some of them (especially the Japanese ones) have a somewhat pale complexion (this doesn't apply to most of the Malay and Pinoy ones).
My two pennies on the subject...
Ed