I'm not a huge fan of topping - It's actually a bit of a bother and not at all pleasurable for me. Some gals like it, some gals don't mind it, some gals really hate it, some gals can't do it at all.
Part of being with someone is navigating the space where your desires and your partner's desires meet. The expectation that all trans women love to top (or can actually top at all) frustrates me to no end.
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