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Originally Posted by davecess View Post
I've been thinking about this question and I reckon the vast majority of men who are attracted to t-girls are sexually submissive towards them. The act of being penetrated either orally or anally is an act of submission.

There is an imbalance however in that far fewer t-girls wish to be sexually dominant.
It is a mistake, in my view, to assume that the act of being penetrated is automatically, by its nature, an act of submission. Dominance and submission are about control. It is an error to assume that penetration is, automatically, a controlling act. Imagine, for example, a transwoman who prefers to be a bottom, but has a partner able to persuade her to top him. Who shows dominance (control) and submission in that situation?

As with sexuality and gender, dominance and submission -- when not played out in roles deliberately (as in BDSM) -- are more likely on a spectrum.
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