If the fetish goes for a long period without being fulfilled, this infrequency can make it seem more rare and exotic. You idealise it more in its infrequency and exoticity... daydreaming, fantasizing... and thus want to immerse in a more elaborate manifestation of it.
For example; when I am unable to "get off" off for a relatively long period of time, I look forward to the next time I expect to be able to. And with this time you tend to accumulate more to this eventual scenario. But when I am jerking off every day, what I jerk off to is all but improvised as there is little time after the previous session to invest in much of a scenario.
I doubt you really lose total attraction to girls. Rather the exclusive longing for men is apart of the ever elaborating scenario.
Last edited by wxhluyp; 09-08-2010 at 05:58 PM.
Reason: forgot something
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