Francisca is really beautiful. Thanks for sharing! I hate to restate what should be obvious but I use the pronoun ?she? precisely because, based on my own experiences, this wonderful person appears to define herself as very feminine. The long blonde hair, beautiful eyes, luscious thighs, nicely sized breasts--as well as her chosen name, all scream out female! Contrast this image with my profile picture if you will--it is hard to imagine me--ever being mistaken for a woman. Besides, I can?t ever find anything my size!

However, there seems to be some doubt as to how Francisca identifies. Is our friend in the pictures a ?gay, feminine, man?? I don?t think so. I had lunch with a gay colleague today. He, like me, is quite ?masculine? in his appearance. About 6?2? a little over 200 lbs, trim beard, and very short hair. His partner is younger, clean shaven, blonde, and has a slim athletic build. You would not mistake him for a woman however.

Anyway, it is important that we use appropriate pronouns when referring to someone. If one knew the person in the pictures and knew for a fact that they identified as ?male? and simply enjoyed crossdressing, then it might be appropriate to refer to them as ?he? or ?him.? Since I do not think any of us does know this person, then we must assume from outward appearances that they identify as ?female.? We have many transwomen who are active members of this site and it is important that we recognize and respect the gender that they identify as. That goes for the many beautiful models who grace this site as well. Smc, ila, and Shadows have done a wonderful job of keeping this forum respectful and free from ?ungendering."

Would it matter to me if our gorgeous Francisca, did indeed identify as a gay male? No, not in the least. She is incredibly sexually attractive and I would consider myself in heaven to be able to make love to someone so beautiful.