personally, i had srs because in my mind, soul, in that dark place that doesn't have a name and only a few people go, the penis i was born with was a body defect, much like a third arm or a siamese twin or ..whatever other medical condition is out there. now i have a vagina, great 38C breasts, and i love my body. regularly...
i am in a life relationship with a womyn, and we love each other. just...the feeling of a penis inside me is something i've yet to experience. is it morally wrong of me, is it cheating? yes. i do feel guilty about it. but it is something that i need to have to complete my experience as a woman. i will not leave my partner. but untill this happens, i cannot be complete.
ps, GGAdmirer, if i may, your profile pic is possibly the most beautiful i have seen in a long time. simply stunning.