**Please disregard this post if you ONLY want replies from FEMALE members of this forum**
What I think about this, okanom - because you say you look more feminine (and possibly quite attractive) - is given a bit more time, AT LEAST one of these 5 women would have started to flirt with you, and then you could have used a discreet but seductive approach and gently ask her WHAT she finds so appealing, so sweet about you... Then, if you're real nice to her, she'll soon try to connect with you on a deeper, more "emotional" level... Now IF things get this far, you'll be able to tell how much "female hormones" may have helped you become "softer", more beautiful, more attractive...
Who knows? Maybe it will even reach a point where she'll declare having a serious crush

on you, okanom...
Sincerely wish you the best!