At issue in the exchange between undercover faggot and others in the posts from today is ungendering.
On this board, we make a point of respecting each and every person's right to self-determination of her or his gender identity.
undercover faggot wrote: "i'm also ok with the fact that sucking on another man's cock is considered gay sex, whether they have lipstick and fake tits or not." In doing so, and in the context of his other posts, undercover faggot has decided for others their gender identity. It may be the case that someone undercover faggot has sucked who has "lipstick ... and fake tits" identifies as a man. That is fine. But to imply that anyone with those attributes (however "fake tits" might be defined) is ungendering.
To defend one's ungendering by resorting to personal attacks and insults on other members, rather than discussing the issues -- even very, very sharply -- typically speaks volumes about how defensible the attacker's position really is.
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