smc / shadows:
Thanks! I was generalizing about guys, but I do understand that there are some awfully nice guys here.
And I know you guys have plenty problems yourself if you're trying to date a trans girl. When I'm places where gender-bending folks hang out, it seems like the only people looking to hook up are middle-aged transvestites -- many of whom actually live as men and are married to women! These people say some pretty gross things to me, and even ones I've become friends will get out of control after a few drinks and be hounding me to see up my skirt, or my favorite line from a 50-year-old guy in a dress: "When are you gonna make a woman out of me?" Sorry, if I stick anything in your ass it's going to be my foot. Did I mention I have a handgun permit and I used to bench sets of 300 lbs. because my weight set couldn't go any higher?
I used to be pretty angry at guys. For a couple years I never dated anyone, and the few sexual encounters I had were with people who pissed me off, which I'm sure they liked since it played out like something you'd see on shemalerevenge.com... But I think I'm more normal now
Anyway, most girls you could date are just trying to blend into society, and if you go looking in places known for having t-girls you're mostly going to find prostitutes and crossdressers. So I know you guys have it kinda rough.
For a porn-related forum (or any forum), I'm kinda impressed that a few of you guys sound awfully smart and classy.