so many teasers here :-)
i'm glad there's not much mention of handcuffs and "you've been a bad girl."
as someone else said, anything can be considered kinky, although my rule ot thumb is, "if it looks like it belong in a Luis Bunuel movie, it's a keeper."
i lead a pretty conservative life, so i guess for me, the nearest to "kinky" is the time a biker/ex-convict peed on me while i was fully dressed in a women's business skirt suit.
in public.
in front of a restaurant.