From my own experience Michael I am very sympathetic. It worked out for me but that was just my experience.
I know that a few people have given good advice about being open with your wife but it sounds like discussing this with her would be the first step on the road to seperating. This may not be a bad thing, I do know from my parents splitting up when I was a kid that children can sense when their parents are unhappy. I could be friends with both my parents when they seperated and they were much happier.
Reading the above it is a bit of a collection of random thoughts. I think the best advice I can give is look forward one month, two months, five years etc and imagine what life would be like for yourself and your family if everything continues the way it is now.
Whatever you decide to do good luck.
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