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Originally Posted by british_boy

Hello, and welcome to the forum. I have a Filipina TS girlfriend, but I identify myself as a straight man.

To my mind, sexuality isn't confined to whether the person you lust after has a cock or a pussy; it's the whole package. My girlfriend is petite, feminine, gentle, and when I'm snuggled up against her soft, smooth skin, stroking her long hair, and smelling her flowery perfume, it never crosses my mind that she was born a boy... she's a girl who happens to have a cock.

Take a look at some gay porn - my feeling is that the sight of hard, hairy fellas with short haircuts, banging the hell out of each other in jockstraps will be a massive turn off. As would the sight of a TS male with a beard, pecs, skin-head and pussy.

I think that our biggest problem is others' perceptions of us. Only a few close, liberally-minded friends know the full extent of my relationship. Others know that I have a Filipina girlfriend, which isn't a lie, but they don't know the full story. If our relationship continues and we decided to settle together in the UK, I know there will be a shit-storm, and I could lose a few relatives and friends over it. I'm also sure there will be some hate, and some ignorant whispers of "Did you know Jay is gay?" behind my back. I just hope I'm strong enough to rise above it and stay true to myself.

Your story should be an inspiration to others on the Forum. Thank you for sharing it with all of us.