I came about everything by accident. One night I downloaded a video on Kazaa (wow, long time ago) simply labeled "redhead cumshot." There was a redhead cumshot alright, just not what I was expecting. It turned out to be two guys in wigs (and maybe makeup, but it was grainy) masturbating for 10 seconds and then blowing their loads. I've been hooked ever since.
How I got into crossdressing is a completely different story for a different day
