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Originally Posted by british_boy
Browsing through some of the posts and polls here, I've noticed that some (by no means all!) of you guys seem to see t-girls as somehow second class - i.e. a bit of elicit and dirty fun and a walk on the wild side before you run back to the genetic girls. In other words, you don't seem to view them as the rounded human beings they are - someone you could have a long and fulfilling relationship with.
Why is this?
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Fears,
internal self questioning fears
fears of being categorised by others
fear of her being "read" & you're association with her leading to other peoples views on you changing
used to be a man
hidden dirty little secret
An easy fuck {that bit as a generalisation is true}
leading onto: fear of her fidelity
fear of intro'ing her to your parents
fear of long term relationship stability / viability as surgeries occur...she is changing
Also,
Almost all of us are unstable to a large degree
deranged, its just a question of how deranged we are.
And do you really want to buy into that, long term?
Trans are on the margins of most societies
Do you really want to join that?
Hot now...but what will I be like in 40 years time?
Objectified sexually by the media...Not taken as a serious option re as a long term partner. so any wonder people get conditioned.
Oh, & we can't drop babies
thats a bit of a bigee for most long term relationships