i guess the youngsters are experimenting and see everything that looks female as a challenge, and thats great
the slightly older are likely to have gone down route normal because the chance to meet their fantasy didnt exist
the older still may get to the point where they cant live their lie any longer but the opportunity has to be there
but we have to separate porn from reality and i see no point discussing attitudes in relation to porn - fantasy is what you want it to be.
attitudes to reality depend entirely on opportunity and i am lucky to have the opportunity and to have met some fabulous people in london. i see them as people, and people i know well, and they have names and personalities and what is betwen their legs is not important anymore - but that is because i have got past the porn influence of my youth
but of course i had to actively seek them out, which is easy enough in london, and knew, once i had found them, i was in the right place emotionally. and now everything seems normal
if you spend all your life wondering, you will screw your head up. go and find out, but you will find out nothing if you just think of them as a porn item or an escort - find the real people.
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