I think than if you read very many posts here on this forum, it soon becomes obvious that what appeals to one person may not do a thing for another, and vice versa. And of course if it makes sense for you, then that is enough. While I don't see it quite your way, I am sure there are many who do. Remember the saying that was popular some years back - "I'm okay, you're okay"?? Amen
We do need to keep in mind that many t-girls are striving towards becoming all women, and thus: the more they look like a beautiful girl, the closer they are to happiness and their goal. So for me; it is the Tgirl who looks totally feminine and can easily pass.