Do you REALLY know the person you're with ?
Secrecy, Guilt, Lust, Dreams. Do all these have to be realised for you to have a ' complete ' love life ? You think you know the person you are with, but apply the can-opener to their perceptions of you and you risk infecting your relationship with a super-bug.
It's all about maintaining and respecting another person's privacy. If they keep secrets, then it is what they need for their own security. And as for yourself, don't fart in the face of another person's feelings for you - you might presume too much on their good nature !
By all means tell us on the Forum - much safer that way.
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