Bianca, I respect everything said here, but it sounds like your looking for a huge deep relationship with someone that most of the time just isn't real, like almost as a soulmate, people go there whole lives looking for this and most will never find it and be completely caught up in it allways saying well he/she isnt the one cause they did this or he/she isnt the one cause they dont do that, I dont think that a soulmate situation exists for everyone, everyone has faults and as long as they treet people with respect and you think there attractive and they think your attractive let the relationship run its course if than you have found a deep connection that is so perfect nothing could break you apart than damn your lucky. It's not like any of us will be married and marriage is a bullshit institution anyway. And if us guys are married then it will probably be over soon after they found out were bangin a much hotter transsexual woman, or dream of doing so. Also our situation is just doomed to be scrutinized and broken hearted in this society, on the male and female side of the coin.