I never really worried about labels and believe we are all capable of loving others, no matter the gender. I've always loved pussy and enjoy being with women. I've had dozens of female sex partners. However, I assumed that I was bi because I am attracted to certain males. Specifically, feminine males. I've only had sex with 2 males in my life (and have not yet experienced the delights of a T-girl). But realize that the 2 guys I had sex with were very feminine, that is they were small and petite, had round hips, walked like a female and kept their skin soft and shaved their legs and pubes. Neither was a TV or wore make-up, they were just very feminine gay men. I have never been attracted to masculine men and, frankly, think its repulsive to even consider having sex with a big muscular hairy guy (no offense meant to anyone).
However it is that we're wired, we pick up on the feminine part, even if who we're attracted to is genetically male, and go with it. I loved having sex with these 2 men, sucking their cocks came naturally, and I have met other fem men and T-girls that I have been attracted to and wanted to have sex with but didn't, for various reasons. Anyway, I seem to be rambling, but my point is that we are all wired in a particular way and its irrelevant if we call ourselves straight, gay or bi. Just go with what feels natural to you, be safe and cause no harm.
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