First post here. I think it's great that she's gone through with all this to become the woman she really is, but I have to comment a bit on some of the posts here.
First of all, it's perfectly understandable that some men here lost interest after she lost her male genitalia. They have a sexual attraction to the idea of a woman with a penis, that's all. It's not really a bad thing, it just means they'll probably never be in a real relationship with a TS, because they're not looking for that.
Second, the user who says he isn't pussy-whipped, hates feminism, etc. He is acting like a dick, but on some level I know what he's trying to say, even if he is being awfully crude and blunt about it. Or, at least, I hope he's trying to say this. He is probably respectful towards women in a normal situation, but has anger management issues and has trouble keeping his calm when a disagreement occurs. If all he's saying is that he won't put up with a TS giving him grief any more than he will with one born in a female body at birth, that should be flattering, as it would mean that he would treat a TS the same way he would treat a woman(EDIT: Woman as in one born with all the organs and whatnot. There must be a term for this.). Unfortunately, I think he actually views them as guys, so my shred of optimism is probably blown to shit.
Third, I do not think there is anything wrong with liking a TS - in part, not entirely - for her male genitalia. You might like her after SRS too, but if you're attracted to a TS, there's a reason you're not just dating someone born with female organs down there. As disappointing as it might sound to some TS's, I don't think anyone can argue that, at least to some extent, anyone with an attraction to you gals must have some attraction to the thing between your legs. That doesn't mean they don't appreciate you for who you are, and respect the fact that you're a woman born in a man's body. It's just that, really, they chose to date a TS for a reason, right?
I don't aim to be offensive in any way, so do forgive me if I crossed the line anywhere in my post - and tell me so that I may better understand - in a reply.
Last edited by me_yo999; 08-31-2009 at 01:12 PM.
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