For the moment I only fantasize, and I am open to it in real life, sex and/or a relationship that is. And I have to say I am open for a lot of things. On the otherhand, most people don't know much about my sexlife and I plan to keep it that way. afterall, what do I know about theirs and I do I want to know? I don't think so
The only people that know about my fantasies, wishes and kinks are the ones I really, really know and they have a lot in common, most of them are into BDSM, or polyamory.
If people really want to know I will tell them. Most of them anyway. And I only 'defend' T-girls when I feel there is a need to. Like I do when it comes to gays and also when it comes to the BDSM community. I hate ignorance, although I think we all are, or have been ignorant one time or the other. But when someone hates gays, T-girls or BDSM, I will stand up yes, even if it was to try to give them a different view, or maybe a reason not be afraid. I know we can all change, it just needs a positive input and motivation... One can always hope eh?